No, I understand where you're coming from. I just wanted to point out that, yes, non-canon pairings are tricky, because you have to address these kinds of issues, instead of just throwing two people together and pretending it was always that way. Some of us do go to the trouble to make these pairings believable, but most people don't bother beyond "OMG their so cuuuute lol!!!1!" and they give the rest of us a bad name.